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Try to wear clothing that you
don't have to take off to fuck. This is good if you have to
leave in a hurry or if you have to run away.
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Wear shoes that you can run
in.
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Make sure you can see, if you
have contacts or glasses WEAR THEM!
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Don't wear necklaces, hand bags,
or scarves as these could be used to choke you.
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Be Alert. Try not to work while
intoxicated by drugs or alcohol.
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Carry something that can be
used as a weapon like hair spray, (for the eyes), or keys.
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Make sure that you have enough
condoms and lube for the night.
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Run AGAINST traffic, not with
it.
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Have a friend know where you
are going, provide them with as much information as you can
like: a phone number, license plate number, full name, where
you are going etc.
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If youdon't have a friend around,
make the client thtk taht youdo by saying to the nearest passer-by
that you will meet them later at a place nearby.
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Let the clienty know that you
told someone where you will be (even if you didn't).
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Pick a hotel or parking lot
that you feel safe in.
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Stash keys, money, ID, and other
important stuff where they will be safe. Keeping them in your
pocket or handbag makes them more accessible if a client tries
to rob you.
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Cautiously approach a clients
car, leaving enough distance between you and the car to avoid
being grabbled.
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Arrange price, location and
service outside of the car.
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Walk around the car to look
in it to ensure that the deriver is alone and that nobody is
hiding.
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Once in the car, make sure that
you can easily open the car door and that the handle is working.
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Get your money upfront and stash
it somewhere (other than where you usually put it), where the
client can see. This way if he does rob you, he won't get all
your money.
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Put your purse where you can
find it without looking (ie. on the floor between your feet).
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ALWAYS keep your eyes and ears
on him and especially his hands.
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If he doesn't mind, keep the
car door slightly open.
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If you are being attacked MAKE
NOISE! Scream, yell, whatever, just make a commotion. Somebody
might hear you and help you.
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If you are going to a hotel
or his place, make sure that once you are in, that you check
all of the rooms (including the bathroom), to ensure that nobody
is hiding.
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Make sure that the clients door
does not have a dead bolt on it.
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While in the clients space checkto
see if there is an altenative exit other than the door you came
in.
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If you have had a bad date please
report it to your local Bad Date Line, so the information on
the assailant can be passed on to other sex workers.
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If you have never taken a self
defence course, now would be the best time to start.
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Remember to always trust your
gut.
Safety Tips
Written by ANNIE
BANDES and MARTHA ARROYO
Martha Arroyo works at Lower East Side Harm Reduction
Center. Annie Bandes is the Womens Program coordinator at the
same Agency in New York, and the hardest working man in show business...
SIZE UP THE SITUATION
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Listen to his voice,
observe body language. Listen to your instinct, if it doesn't
feel right, there's a good chance it isn't.
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Make sure the client
is alone. Getting into a car with more than one person, increases
your risks Check behind the back seat to make sure that no one
is hiding.
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Check the car. Always
check door handles before you get in to make sure they work.
Make sure you know how to unlock the door before entering car.
Avoid vans.
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Get the money first.
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Check address. If
client says he's taking you to one place, but pulls up at another,
this may not be all he's lying about. Unless it's a regular,
avoid bridges and tunnels.
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Have a friend or
co-worker write down the license plate number of the car before
you drive off in it. Do the same when someone else goes off
with a client.
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If no one you know
is around, ACT AS IF! Call to the nearest passerby something
in the vein of "See you at such and such, at such and such
time". Anything to let client know that you will be missed
and have been witnessed leaving with them.
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Talking into cell
phone, even if not operating, can lend to the impression that
you are 'connected'.
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If working from
a regular spot, make sure someone sees you both go in, so they
can make sure you both come out.
Bad Date:
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Share information
with your co-workers. If you have had a bad experience with
a client pass their details on to co-workers. Describe the car,
his rap, anything that will help others avoid going off with
him.
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Share information
with us at the needle exchange, so that we can put a 'Creep
Sheet' out on him, so that we can inform others.
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Consider reporting
incident to the police. Some police are sympathetic and will
do all they can to help get this person off the streets and
prevent them from harming someone else. Remember: an assault
is an assault, whether you live in the White House or you don't
even have a house.
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Try to use a latex/polyurethane
condom for each sexual act, to prevent STDs and HIV. For oral
sex try a non-lubricated or flavored condom.
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Vaginal/anal sex,
use a lubricated condom, and as much lube as possible, to reduce
"trauma and abrasions", which means harm to your vagina.
Its especially important to protect yourself from secondary/re-infection
with HIV if you are immune compromised from HIV or Hepatitis
C. Obviously, condoms also prevent pregnancy!
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If you are really
high or really sick, you may find yourself agreeing to do things
you normally wouldn't when you negotiate terms with a client.
Try to get straight before your date.
- Do not carry weapons
- Use your voice and speed (scream, honk horn)
- Attack areas that are vulnerable (eyes, throat, testacles)
- Run away against lights, towards car lights and people
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Wear shoes that
you can run in.
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Necklaces, scarves,
key chains, anything around neck is dangerous (it can be used
to strangle or drag you).
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Hygiene. If at
all possible, try to wash between dates. If water is not available,
non-alcohol towelettes are good.
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Get yourself checked
as often as possible (At least every six months) If you need
help accessing GYN care, contact your local needle exchange.
More and more programs are working with working women!
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You are the paid
professional: take charge of the situation!
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For example, you
are less vulnerable if you are on top.
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Get the money first,
and again listen to you heart and instincts.
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