Standard Etiquette for Play at Professional Dungeons

By Goddess Vanessa Payne

SAFE SANE CONSENSUAL

*Please Note* - Every Dungeon has the OWN rules for play. Generally Pro Dungeons DO NOT offer SEXUAL INTERCOURSE as part of the services. However that does not mean that every Pro doesn't offer it, you may find many independent ProDommes that WILL provide FS. Same goes with BodyWorship - Some Mistress will allow body contact, some will not - If you want to know whether or not you will be allowed to reach a climax, ask if you will recieve a release, and ask if there is any contact allowed!

DON'T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS - INQUIRE FIRST AND PLEASE ASK POLITELY

*Negotiate all scenes, prior to beginning with your top or bottom, and go over each other's limitations

*Please be respectful of privacy, as Professionals we expect our clients to be discreet just as they would expect the same discretion from us. Some of us do live Vanilla lives outside of the BDSM circle. DO NOT bring any camras or recording equipment without prior approval, we don't secretely take your pictures, so please show equal respect.

*Treat everyone with equal respect. We are all humans! Dom/mes, Switches and subs alike

*Play sober - no recreational drugs or alchohol please! This is for everyone's safety!

*Smoking is usually permitted although at the discretion of the dungeons. There's a lot of people out there with smoking fetishes, but we do our best to keep the air smelling fresh.

*Sexual Intercourse - generally not provided. Althought that doesn't mean you're gonna be left with blue balls, ask!
ALWAYS establish safe words before beginning, and a signal in case of gagging. Generall RED and YELLOW are used in the industry. AND DON'T PUSH IT! As professionals we respect your limitations, and we expect dominant clients to have the same respect for ProSubs - If you ignore safewords, your scene will be terminated immediately - at the very least!

*Clean up after your scene, especially if it's messy. As Professionals, we take the utmost care to clean and sterilize equipment after it's been used, so please clean up your own bodily fluids.

*Always use a drop cloth during temperature play with hot wax! This can be extremely messy!

*Bloodsports and Scat are generally not available by professionals for sanitary reasons. Psychological play can also be quite mentally disturbing if not done correctly, so stick with humiliation. If you're really into these things then find a lifestyle relationship within the community. Where the sub can receive proper aftercare.

*Solicitation for services that are not offered are not received well in this community, so if it's not offered, DON'T ASK FOR IT!

*Novices - Please seek experienced professionals - I'm sure I don't have to describe what could happen when a "breath control" scene goes wrong a novice sub seeing a novice dom/me. PLAY SAFE!!